Recently, at the Pneumarium, we have been discussing the wisdom of the Taoism of Chuang Tzu. He was the disciple of the founder of Taoism, Lao Tzu. (This name is NOT pronounced like "loud Sue," but with a more subtle intonation.:)
Speaking of Taoism, I have been instructed by the Holy Spirit to take a "Taoist" attitude to this whole kidney-thang (which I call "Project K"). That means no manipulation, no coercion, no interference, no pushing, no pulling, and no references or personal desires. That is amazingly challenging! But, so far, it seems to be working!
If I can manage simply to "get out of the way," and not to interfere with the cosmic Mind, then Love will have everything fall into place. I must "flogo," or "go with the Flow" of events. And things really do work this way! (It is always astonishing when you see it actually happening, as we are taught that everything falls apart without our continuous control-- not true at all!)